Put a bunch of Bear Energy people together in one room and it is a beautiful thing; boisterous and physical to be sure, but still a beautiful thing. Now, put a group of Butterfly Energy people in one room it is also beautiful; chattery and touchy, yet still beautiful. Now, if you gather both the […]
I have often made a point in these blogs that we are energy, each of us is energy. To underscore this idea and perhaps make it a little easier to make part of your life, here is another example of this fact; You walk into a room feeling just a little off, not necessarily
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Talk is cheap, so they say, and it is true; words come easily and abundantly, the problem is no matter how many words we use we may not be communicating. This lack of communication is not simply because others are not listening, it is because they cannot hear us. In my book Bear and Butterfly
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I am sitting outside a Starbucks in Kunatachi, Japan right now. All around me are the famous Cherry trees of Japan coming into bloom. Tourists and locals alike are snapping photos of the blossoms, the air is redolent with their soft fragrance. In a few days there will be a rain and most of these
Men and Women do not actually speak different languages, what is different is how the message of that language is delivered. Working with different communication styles has been the journey I have been on while writing Bear and Butterfly, and I really want to share what I have learned with you. In Bear and Butterfly I break
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Believing in yourself is not the same thing as believing in your possibility, your product or your job. Believing in yourself has to do with believing in the person YOU are, the person behind the things you do. The most successful sales people are never selling a product, they are selling themselves. They are selling a
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Although Donna Summer sang this song beautifully in the 70’s, it’s not much of a credo by which to live. Have I mentioned in these blogs that words have power? Do you want to just survive, or do you want to thrive? It takes the same amount of energy to commit yourself to surviving the
Most of us want to change our lives in one way or another; some are huge changes, some are just “tweeking,” but very few of us have everything in our lives exactly the way we have visioned. Too often we grow frustrated that said changes have not occurred, or not occurred so we can see
Have you noticed that when you say something like “I am tired” what you feel is that you are even more tired? If you say “I am fat” all you can see about yourself is fatness? How about when you say “I am ready to go.” Your energy is higher, your outlook is brighter. “I
Have you ever considered that when we vote we are best off coming from a place of Love? Think about it, if you love someone you do not find yourself saying “I love you because you are the lesser of two evils” or “I will love you because because I really don’t like that other
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