Start out a conversation, or a negotiation with these words or this thought in your mind and you start out with a fight. You may even be right, they indeed may be wrong, but you see, there is this principle of resistance in the Universe which comes into play anytime we try to make anyone […]
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I wish I were…(add the thing or things you wish you were here) is one of the most destructive ideas we can put in our own heads. Why? Because in saying “I wish I were smarter”, for instance, we convince ourselves we are not smart at all, and this is not true. “I wish I
Claiming that It’s All About Me at first blush may seem to be the most egocentric posture one can adopt, no question about it. But, It’s All About Me is about recognizing that we are not victims, powerless peons surviving day-by-day, unless we choose to have that experience. Even then, ironically, we will be demonstrating to
Too often we do not have the opportunity to ask this question before we lash out at someone. The reason we are “bugged” by people and situations goes back to our training. Yes, we as humans are trained. We are trained to make us less difficult to manage! We can go into that at another
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Earlier I wrote about the idea of Forgive and Forget. As I look back on that blog which is available at Choicefullingseminars.com, I realize there is another step which we must consider in the forgiveness process. You see, if we do choose to forgive someone for doing something we did not like, or approve of,
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Call me a rebel, it’s been done before; call me a non-conformist, it would not be the first time, also try; stubborn, resistant, independent, contrary, the list goes on an on, but I simply do not find satisfaction in things simply because someone tells me “I’m Supposed To”. Here is how I look at it:
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In the follow-up book to Think, Believe, Receive, three steps to an amazing life, which is entitled It’s All About Me, I write about why some people are morning people, and others are not morning people. I suggest the most important difference between morning people and non-morning people is that morning people are those who have allowed
Ya, right, forgive and forget, fat chance. Hold on now: forgiveness and forgetting are not the same thing at all. Forgetting something which impacted you is both impossible, and undesirable. Everything in our lives has brought us to the point we are now, yes, even those things we think were undesirable are part of who we are
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For some time now I have been offering my views on how we can live our lives more joyfully, in a more in-powered manner. I guess one might get the idea that I view myself as perfect, and example to be emulated. Well, that is simply not so. I got a gentle reminder this weekend
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Have you ever found it difficult, if not impossible to accept that your life, your experiences, are occurring in exactly the right way, at exactly the right time, and that the outcome will be exactly perfect? Of course you have, we all have, but now here is another way to look at the same experience:
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