relationships

The pool of love

Love as a goal. Love is like a pool of water.  We see ourselves reflected in that pool.  There is nothing greater than having the best parts of ourselves reflected back to us.  When we truly commit to another person, we must do so with full appreciation of who we, ourselves, are.  To truly commit […]

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But did you hear me?

We define hearing as actually listening. Most of us would consider ourselves pretty good listeners.  Unfortunately what we most often do is quite the opposite of being good listeners.  Rather than actually listen for content, we most often listen to comment.  Our partners speak, but we do not hear their message, we only hear the

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Bad Luck

We define Bad Luck as events beyond our control. What is Bad Luck?  Is it when something unexpected occurs that is not what you wanted?  That is what most people associate with Bad Luck, but you must always remember, nothing happens by chance.  Each of us are powerful creators.  What seems like Bad Luck is

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Who am I?

Who are you?  You are a unique individual who is doing the very best you can at this very moment.  You bring to this planet skills, ideas and possibilities no one has ever brought, and no one else will ever bring.  I guess that makes you pretty special, doesn’t it!   The biggest challenge we

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Practice, practice, practice

You have tried every self-help program out there, and none of them have worked.  Not one single one of them has worked.  You are frustrated and ready to give up on the idea of experiencing a better life, getting more money or having a wonderful relationship.  I totally get it.  Nothing worked for me either,

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Choiceful Living on TV

Some of you know I am married to one of the most amazing people on the planet, Terrie Symons, who is also known as Lady Ashtar.  My bride and I recently taped a television show with the delightful Paula Vail which will  debut today in the US on many viewing platforms and I hope you

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Creative Beings

We are all creative beings, no matter how you look at yourself, you are a creative being.  Everything about us cries out to be creative on some level or another.  This is why destruction affects us the way it does. Destruction of buildings, habitat, relationships all affect us; for some it is a thrill, for

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