Great question. Is what I think the same thing as what I believe? No it is not, and here is how it works: If I think I would like to win the lottery and quit working, then I buy a ticket for the lottery, and then after the numbers are drawn someone says “well, did […]
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365 days a year the sun rises, but never twice in the exact same place. 365 times in the past year the sun has found a way to do things from a new place, but what about you? Are you stuck doing exactly the same thing exactly the same way each and every day simply because it
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What does it mean to stand in your own power? It means: 1) being aware of what you are doing 2) knowing why you are doing it, and 3) doing it in a manner which supports your goals, and the best in everyone concerned. This is being In-powered. At Choiceful Living Seminars, through the In-powerment program, what we want
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That’s right, I do not need to be loved. Is this counter to everything you have learned over your years? How can someone not need to be loved? The key to this statement is in the word need. When we go about our day needing to be loved, we make choices which do not necessarily
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Most of us are pretty good at saying “thank you” when someone does something for us. Sometimes we even say “Good job!” when something is done for us which makes us happy. Yea for us, this is the way it should be, still there is one person to whom we too often neglect to recognize
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Tonight many of us will open our doors to hob-goblins, ghosts and ghouls of countless descriptions. Do you recall that the purpose of wearing these costumes can be traced back to the tradition of one night a year, wearing on the outside what we are afraid of on the inside? Many of us are afraid of
No question about it, we are entering the busiest season of the year for most people. Halloween is here, and how far behind can the Turkey Dinner/shopping/party/family/stress-out bonanza be? and if the holidays are not enough, it is election season too. The pressure is all too much! If there is anytime in the year we want
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Seems I am on a theme run right now, we discussed being a yes or no person the other day. Somewhat in the same theme is the question: “when I hear things from others, do I assume they are negative, and go into a defensive posture every time?” Jon walks in and says, “hey, I
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Ask yourself, when someone comes to me with an idea or suggestion, is my first response to say yes, or is my first response to say no? It doesn’t matter if the idea or suggestion is good or the idea has merit, is your first response most often yes, or no? I have to laugh
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So, to complete this go round with Drama Oriented Power Exchange, or DOPE; now that we are aware of the presence of DOPE, now that we are awakened to how easily we can get sucked into its vortex, what can we do about its effects? We can become the Involved Observer in our lives. As
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