It’s All About Me

Body Image

It’s no secret, one of the most insidious things to overcome is our own image of our bodies.  Does this seem superficial to you?  Nothing is superficial when it works right to the depths of how we feel about ourselves. As with so many of our “issues” the idea of how our body should look […]

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Your Hot Button

You know what your hot button is; it is that topic which when raised raises your blood pressure and lowers your capacity to think clearly, in inverse proportion. Where do these hot buttons originate?  Now that is difficult to say, but they have to do with some issue or event in your past which has left a

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Just for the fun of it.

“If it ain’t fun, I ain’t doing it.” Many of my friends have heard me say this, it usually gets at least a little chuckle; sometimes the response is “now that’s the right attitude!”  But, is it the truth?  I love to share my ideas about living an IN-powered life with you, and sometimes I

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Love those little boxes!

Those little boxes, you know the ones I mean, the boxes which define who we are, what we believe, who we should like, or dislike. The little boxes which define how much we should earn, where we should live (in a little box of course!).  Those little boxes are so comforting.  they keep us warm

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Chaos Reigns!

When we hear or see the word Chaos we have been taught to think of things out of control, of things not working, of danger! In fact my Websters dictionary does indeed include a rather pejorative suggestion that chaos is a confused mass or mixture.  This, however follows three other definitions, which all reflect a wholly

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After the But…

We can sing and dance around a topic, trying to avoid expressing a judgement, still, whatever we say after the word “but” is our real message. Have you ever noticed how peoples voices even change right before they get to what they want to say, bust before the “but” appears?  The words drag out a

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Be your own Guru

I have many friends who are walking the path of self IN-powerment, which is what we call this work at Choiceful Living Seminars.  Folks who frequently ask themselves “How can it get any better than this?” What amazes me is that so often, once this path is started, the first thing some of these delightful

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Come from possible

I am going to go out on a limb here and make a prediction: no matter what the issue is you will not find a solution to that issue if you come from the place of the problem. The  only place for advancement, for resolution, for forward progress will be to come from the possible.

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Waiting Bites

So, here it is Thursday evening.  I just ordered a proof copy of my newest book called “It’s All About Me, the involved observer.” I will have to wait 120 hours before the book is due in my hands.  Waiting Bites. Do you realize how incredible it is that I am complaining about waiting 120

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