Your life is a reflection of your thinking. A cluttered mind results in a cluttered desk. (I see this all around me right now). If I reach a point where I cannot seem to put two ideas together I will stop and clear my desk of the clutter. If I do not clear my […]
There you are, flying through life, things are going great, opportunities are opening left and right and suddenly we come to a grinding halt. We seem unable to move forward no matter what we do. What the heck is going on? Integration is going on. Sometimes on our journey forward, we have to take a
I recently wrote about being in the now and how the now, the present, is the only place and time where we can create. Oh, sure, we can plan and dream and prepare for tomorrow, but the only place in all of time and space is right now, this moment. Yes, this does seem a
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Nothing happens in the future. No, I am not being a fatalist, nor predicting doom and gloom. What I am saying is that the future does not exist except as a concept. Things happen in the now; right now, and not a moment later. This moment, this very moment you are looking at this word
But what if our view of a situation is incorrect; not because we are wrong, but simply because we are not seeing the whole picture? But what if we are viewing events not as they are today, but through the lens of things that happened years ago? But what if we did not truly
No, don’t stop thinking forever, just stop thinking about the wrong things. This weekend I was stuck in miles and miles and miles of traffic; hours worth. I found myself getting quite perturbed, as you might imagine. What saved me from becoming a two minute segment on the TV news about road rage was my realization
Sunday was Fathers day. As a group we dads often get less attention on our day than mom does on her day. This is not worth an argument; the point is along with the lesser attention and hoopla comes the question “What have I done to be proud of?” I am so happy to say
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I recently had someone tell me I was good at erasing the past from my life. This kind of took me by surprise because in my garage right now are four large bins of photos, memorabilia and collectables from my past. “Erasing the past?” No, I don’t think so, but because this charge stayed with
Here is a fun fact: we cannot live in our dramas and still live in the now. What this statement means is that we all experience dramas in our lives. Drama is energy which swirl around our lives but serves only to create discord within us, energy which make us feel badly about who we are,
OK, we have had over a week in 2016 to re-start those things which seemed to have stalled in 2015 but for some of us that re-start has not happened. Why? Because we have not let go of 2015 and all the things which happened there. If we are to make a fresh start; if
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