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Seeing the future

Would you like to know what the future holds for you?  Just once wouldn’t you like to know if you should take this action as opposed to that action and know, simply know how things would turn out?   The future is in flux If you have experienced an astrological reading and the astrologer is […]

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Getting dragged-in

Drama is the claws of the past dragging us backwards.  How often do you find yourself embroiled in drama?  Finding yourself distracted on the way to success by the monkey chatter of everyday life?  Drama is not your friend.  On the surface, having a conversation about who did what to whom may seem like simply

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Global Anonymity

We live in a time of Global Anonymity.  We are connected globally through our electronic gadgets, games and information, but no one knows who we are.  For some this seems perfect.  They just don’t want to be weighed down with interpersonal relationships, but they enjoy the thrill of being connected.  For others it only heightens

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Being lovable

How do you feel about being lovable?  Is it something you would rather not discuss about yourself because you fear being seen as self-centered?  Is this something you have even thought about?  Perhaps you gave up on the task a long time ago? Am I lovable? Not only are you lovable, you are loved.  Many of

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How do I stack-up?

One of the tendencies we have is to compare ourselves to others.  He has more hair, she is thinner, they are smarter than I am.  We cannot win at this game.  Neither can we win the comparison game the other way; I am more fit than he is, my car is nicer than theirs, at

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Shame as control

One of the ways we control our youngsters is through shame.  Of course we don’t consider it controlling, we sugar-coat it as “Teaching” but it is still shame.  “Do you want people thinking you are a slob?” we might tell a young one.  Innocent as this little phrase might at first sound, it will last

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The inspirational gift

The most powerful gift we can give is the gift that inspires others to give.  The really cool part about this gift is that it will not cost you any money at all! Earth Day I am proud to say that I was part of the first Earth Day observance way back in April 1970.

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Being courageous

Being courageous is a continuation of my writing from last Friday about courage. Being courageous in your life The prerequisite to loving any other person is to love yourself first.  This is no easy task.  It seems like every time we turn-around someone is offering us a reason not to love ourselves.  They will tell you

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Being Wrong

There is nothing wrong with being wrong.  There is simply no way we can know everything, every time.  What we do this  moment is the best we know how to do at this moment.  Given the same set of choices at another moment in time we might choose to do things differently, but there ya

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Feeling optimistic

I am optimistic about the future of our young women.  Yes, I know there are so many reasons to be concerned about them; but we don’t have to go into them here.  What has me optimistic is my interaction with twenty two fantastic young ladies last night. Judging from the past Having come of age

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