Brian Graham

Just visiting!

Here is a challenge for you; try viewing our beautiful planet as though you were just visiting from a far distant planetary system.  Step aside from your everyday view of your surroundings and put yourself in the place of someone visiting from another planet.  Would you view the sunset you see every day differently?  Would […]

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Better to forgive than delete

Sooner or later, in all of our lives, comes the question; do I forgive this person or do I delete them from my life.  Our emotional response is often; delete, delete, delete.  Our spiritual response is; forgive. Let’s look at the delete option. When we choose to cut-ties with someone over what they have done

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I am too busy!

Has the phrase “I am too busy” come out of your mouth lately?  Does this mean you are complaining about your life, or does it mean you cannot take on another project? Complaining about your life. We want to be very careful about complaining where our life is concerned.  The Cosmos has a delightful way of

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To be a man

To be a man today is a pretty complicated assignment.  What exactly is a man after all?  Who is the role model we seek to pattern ourselves after?  Is it the Rambo, shoot ’em-up guy?  Is it the John Wayne character, a little rough around the edges but with a firm moral compass?  Perhaps we

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Going Postal

The phrase going postal was coined at a dark time in US history when mass shootings seemed to be concentrated at Postal facilities.  The phrase refers to a syndrome related to working constantly, doing the same thing, but never getting ahead.   While I am not inclined to using a weapon of any kind, I

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The Promised Land

What is the promised land for you?  Is it something that comes after you leave this level of being?  Is it that beautiful house on the hill?  Perhaps you see it as being the achievement of some long sought-after goal.  Yes, these are all examples of the promised land. How to reach your promised land.

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The value of positive thinking

Does positive thinking have any value?  Is it simply another way to say “wishful thinking”?  You know, I totally get that question.  By itself, positive thinking is not very successful.  One must also include positive action to be successful. Making it work. If you buy a lottery ticket and surround that ticket with positive thoughts

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My enemy is my definition

Right off the bat I want to say I do not believe in an enemy.  I face the world knowing that it takes all kinds of people to make it go around.  Some of these people I agree with, others I do not agree with.  However, if I were to label someone as my enemy,

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I wish

I wish I were the person my dog thinks I am.  It doesn’t matter if this morning I left without a proper good-bye, he is happy to see me in the evening.  If the food I served him was not up to par, he doesn’t seem to care.  When I yell at him for what

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Moment by moment

No matter how long our lifespan is, we measure the time moment by moment.  Individual grains of sand passing through a single point.  Then they are gone. forever. The analogy. Think of an old fashioned hourglass.  If we think of each breath, each experience, as one of those grains of sand passing through the glass

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