Brian Graham

Your condition is not your reality

I do not have to define for you what your condition is, your know what your condition is.  Whatever that “condition” is called, it is not your reality.  Is your condition an illness?  Is your condition your relationship status? Is your condition related to your body shape?  No matter how you define your condition, the […]

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Give Yourself Permission

Too often we wait for someone else to bring us an opportunity; opportunity to grow,  opportunity to achieve, opportunity to experience.  Stop waiting!  Give yourself permission to make, to experience, to have.  Yes, others can help us achieve our goals, but sitting around waiting for that goal to plop down on our doorstep fully completed

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Ask what you want

What would you like to hear someone say to you today? A good friend of mine named Ashtar gave me this process specifically to pass along to you so that you might experience this joy.   Step one, when you get up in the morning, decide what you would like to hear said to you today.

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Drama Now

Here is a fun fact: we cannot live in our dramas and still live in the now. What this statement means is that we all experience dramas in our lives. Drama is  energy which swirl around our lives but serves only to create discord within us, energy which make us feel badly about who we are,

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Wants or Needs?

Wants and Needs are not the same thing, yet we often confuse them in our minds and chase after things which do not serve us, thinking that our wants are our needs. This distracts us from what is truly important in our lives. A need might be food, shelter, clothing. A want would be a five

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Time

So last week someone won the Powerball lottery for over a billion dollars.  A regular  follower of these blogs will know we are happy for  whom ever won, because entraining with success supports us in our own success. The “but” which follows this is that no amount of money will make up for the most precious of

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Close the extra tabs

You know what happens when you have too many tabs open on your computer, right?  The computer slows down. Switching between the various pages just leads us deeper into more stuff and often takes us away from what it is we want to do.  Often times we get so caught up in chasing a piece of

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Track your progress

Want to supercharge your life?  Keep track of your progress. We often loose sight of the things we have accomplished because there is no record of what we have done along the way to remind us of those accomplishments.  This lack of reminders can lead us to believe we live each day for no real

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Closing the Chapter

OK, we have had over a week in 2016 to re-start those things which seemed to have stalled in 2015 but for some of us that re-start has not happened.  Why?  Because we have not let go of 2015 and all the things which happened there.  If we are to make a fresh start; if

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