Everywhere I look I see people trying to get an edge on me, people trying to use me, people who abuse my trust and my love. Everywhere I look I see people who want the best for me, people giving selflessly of their time, people who make me want to be more trusting and loving …
How many times have you decided enough is enough, you are through with this type of relationship; a relationship with a person, a relationship with food, or a relationship with an behavior, and you decide this is it, from now on you will not do or be that anymore. You begin to make the changes …
On your path to true IN-powerment you do not want to take any prisoners. Does this mean you are to lay waste to anyone or anything which crosses your path along the way? No, it means that as you walk the path to being aware of your responsibility for your own life, you do not …
If someone says to you that they can “fix”, run, don’t walk, RUN the other direction just as quickly as you can. First of all, you are not broken, therefore you do not need fixing. Second of all, whatever you want to change about your life does not come from an outside source, it begins …
You know this phrase, it means that the person chosen for a task is perfectly suited to that task. Round peg, square hole means we are trying to force an issue or person to conform to a shape it was never intended to fill. Do you ever feel like a round peg in a square …
Remember that chant from grade school? How about “I know you are, but what am I?” How could we fully understand the truth behind these two phrases when we were but 10 years old? Yet there it is, there is a big persons truth in these words too, although we might not want to use …
Change is scary. This is one truth we all share. Some changes give us the same feeling as the big drop on a roller coaster, scared and thrilled at the same moment, Other changes are just plain uncomfortable. I understand that. Some of us take great pride in remaining stuck; “My parents did it this way, it …
You work hard. You come through in a pinch. Your co-workers and upper level management know you can be counted upon to do the right thing. So how come there is so little joy from your work? This is not an experience unique to you. And this feeling is not restricted to people in large firms: the same experience is …
Integrity is a word I hear coming out of my mouth very often. I hear it more often in my own head as I ask myself “Am I standing in my integrity about this?”. Have you ever thought what integrity is, let alone what integrity is in your life? We certainly cannot insist others live up to …
You have a story about your life. I have a story about my life. Everyone has a story about their life; who they are, why they do what they do, and they (we) tell that story all the time. We tell it to anyone who will listen, sometimes they are listening unwillingly, but most of all …
