You changing me is not possible. Me changing you is not possible. We cannot change anyone else, only ourselves. Think back over your lifetime, has there been someone you have known you could help, if only they would behave the way you wanted them to? If your relationship with this person is good, do you […]
The process of Self Discovery or Self Actualization can be painful. As I wrote recently change demands we leave behind our baggage from the past. As you step into the person you truly are, rather than the person you have been told you should be, friends will fall by the wayside; however they will be
Put a bunch of Bear Energy people together in one room and it is a beautiful thing; boisterous and physical to be sure, but still a beautiful thing. Now, put a group of Butterfly Energy people in one room it is also beautiful; chattery and touchy, yet still beautiful. Now, if you gather both the
Communication between individuals, regardless of gender, can be one of the most challenging aspects of our lives. Ofen well-intended words can be mis-intreperted and result in anger or hurt feelings. What can we do about this? Often the reason our words are not heard is that we are speaking from different energies; I refer to
When I was given the assignment to write Bear and Butterfly, THE relationship handbook by Ascended Master Ashtar I wondered what in the world I could add to the myriad of thoughts and words already published on the subject of relationships. Haven’t we seen and heard all there is to say already? I thought so,
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One of the keys to a successful relationship, be that relationship between friends, roommates, lovers, business or for that matter, any relationship is to create a bond. The tricky part is creating a bond that is not so tight it will strangle the relationship. Within any relationship growth and change are a perfectly natural
The ideas I write about are, for the most part, what is sometimes dismissed as Pop Physchology. Sometimes I hear people deriding this way of thinking as shallow, simple and child-like. You know, I am good with that, because the truth is, these ideas are simple and childlike, but they are far from simple! Who
Recently I was watching a toddler as he sprinted from his Dad’s car parked outside the bank. The child ran to the ATM and began pushing buttons, just like his Dad had been doing to get cash, but of course nothing came out of the machine: much to the little ones displeasure. It occurred to
Nothing happens in the future. No, I am not being a fatalist, nor predicting doom and gloom. What I am saying is that the future does not exist except as a concept. Things happen in the now; right now, and not a moment later. This moment, this very moment you are looking at this word
When my beautiful Bride Terrie starts chattering at me about something on her mind I sometimes mentally run and hide because I know there will be about a zillion words coming my way, and I won’t know which ones to listen to. I also know that when my beautiful Bride Terrie asks me a question
