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You are the Teacher

When we send our kids off to school we think the teachers at that school are going to teach our kids (or grand kids) what they need to know.  The truth is those dedicated  people in the teaching profession do a wonderful job in so many areas, but the most important lessons are not the ones […]

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I just don’t see it

No matter how deep the love is someone is offering you, no matter how much money you might have in the bank, no matter how good your health is, if you cannot see it for what it is, it simply does not exist. In It’s All About Me I quote a friend of mine, Ted Farrell,

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TAKE NO PRISONERS !

On your path to true IN-powerment you do not want to take any prisoners.   Does this mean you are to lay waste to anyone or anything which crosses your path along the way?  No, it means that as you walk the path to being aware of your responsibility for your own life, you do not

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Body Image

It’s no secret, one of the most insidious things to overcome is our own image of our bodies.  Does this seem superficial to you?  Nothing is superficial when it works right to the depths of how we feel about ourselves. As with so many of our “issues” the idea of how our body should look

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Live Extravagantly

You have within your power right now to live extravagantly, whatever that means to you!  Yes, right now that power is within you.  I would like to suggest how you will tap into that extravagance: Read these statements to yourself: I have the courage to self-examine my thoughts and actions without finding wrong in me. I

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Mindfulness

Over the years I have seen so many buzz phrases come along, then go along.  When The Secret came out millions of people bought the book, gave it a quick read, decided they understood and went to the casino saying “I want my money.” Thing is, they did not take time to understand the message in

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I don’t need to be loved

That’s right, I do not need to be loved.  Is this counter to everything you have learned over your years?  How can someone not need to be loved? The key to this statement is in the word need. When we go about our day needing to be loved, we make choices which do not necessarily

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I’m Sorry

At a certain point in my life I was the most caustic person imaginable.  I could spit out words at others which would cut to the quick.  There was no malice intended, mostly, it was simply a defense process I used to protect myself.  Protect myself from what?  I cannot say, it doesn’t matter now.  What

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Where is your focus?

How much of your time do you spend thinking about what is not working, or working as well as it might, in your life?  Now, ask yourself how much time do I spend thinking about things which are going very well in my life.  Do they balance out?  Are you spending more time thinking about stuff

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