Brian K. Graham

Get intimate with your power

Get intimate with my power?  Are you saying what I think you are saying?  Probably not, but it got your attention. Getting intimate What I mean is, get to know your personal power so you can use it to your advantage.  You are using that power anyway, why not use it to get what you […]

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The magic of life

You never know what magic will show up in your life, but is it magic or the result of your personal power? Your plans Almost all the books about success tell us we should plot, strategize and plan every step of our life to succeed.  These steps are all well and good; knowing where you

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Rosh Hashanah

Today is the celebration of Rosh Hashanah; the Jewish New Year.  Happy New Year!  5779 years since creation.  The exact day Rosh Hashanah is celebrated changes each year because the Jewish calendar is based on lunar cycles.  That means the year may be 354.4 days or it may be a little longer.  Before you let

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Emotions

We spend huge amounts of energy trying to avoid showing or feeling emotions.  In doing this we deprive ourselves of a huge amount of joy in our lives. Emotions are not bad Despite what we have been taught, experiencing an emotion is not a bad thing.  Emotions are part of our being.  They are there

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The Collective Consciousness

Step aside those who think their thoughts are their own, you have entered the realm of the Collective Consciousness. What? I want to offer a couple examples of times you may have experienced how consciousness travels beyond the individual.  Have you ever attended a party that was dull as can be, then someone walks in

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Your Memorial

When it comes time for your memorial service, what will people say about you?  Will their words be of someone who devoted their life to living and service?  How would you like to be remembered?   Admittedly, the topic of death and memorial services is not one most people want to spend much time looking

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The School of Love

The School of Love is in session, and you are the only student. Set aside all the conflicting definitions of love.  Release the idea that love and romance are synonymous.  Fear of being misunderstood as you stand in love is a distraction from your classwork.   Focus on yourself How do you feel about yourself?

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Levels of Consciousness

When I speak of Consciousness I am referring to how we view the world, how we view ourselves and how we view the interconnectedness of all things. Consciousness is an evolving experience, and it is a very personal thing.  We cannot judge anyone else’s consciousness, in many cases not even our own.  What is an

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Wanting to help

In wanting to support our loved ones we often offer “helpful advice.”  “You should try this.”  “Do it this way.”  We mean well, we really do want to help, but often our “helpful advice” and our good intentions simply piss-off the other person.   Bear and Butterfly In my book, Bear and Butterfly I examine

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Jumping the fence

When we were little kids an obstacle was no problem, we simply jumped over the fence, or gate or sleeping dog.  As we added years to our count, for some reason we begin to forget that an obstacle is not a roadblock if we are committed to moving forward. Discernment I try to view an obstacle as

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