Communication between individuals, regardless of gender, can be one of the most challenging aspects of our lives. Ofen well-intended words can be mis-intreperted and result in anger or hurt feelings. What can we do about this? Often the reason our words are not heard is that we are speaking from different energies; I refer to […]
When I was given the assignment to write Bear and Butterfly, THE relationship handbook by Ascended Master Ashtar I wondered what in the world I could add to the myriad of thoughts and words already published on the subject of relationships. Haven’t we seen and heard all there is to say already? I thought so,
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One of the keys to a successful relationship, be that relationship between friends, roommates, lovers, business or for that matter, any relationship is to create a bond. The tricky part is creating a bond that is not so tight it will strangle the relationship. Within any relationship growth and change are a perfectly natural
The ideas I write about are, for the most part, what is sometimes dismissed as Pop Physchology. Sometimes I hear people deriding this way of thinking as shallow, simple and child-like. You know, I am good with that, because the truth is, these ideas are simple and childlike, but they are far from simple! Who
I presume many of us are too young to recall that advertising slogan, but the reminder is still important; the reminder that once in a while it is essential that we pause our lives, our thinking, our talking and simply be. In the book Bear and Butterfly I give some reasons why it might be
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One can learn much from looking at the popular culture of a country, or generation. Take, for instance, the popularity of zombies among a certain demographic of the United States. How many movies, television shows and halloween costumes are zombie oriented? What this reflects about this demographic (and I say this without judgement) is a
Nothing happens in the future. No, I am not being a fatalist, nor predicting doom and gloom. What I am saying is that the future does not exist except as a concept. Things happen in the now; right now, and not a moment later. This moment, this very moment you are looking at this word
When my beautiful Bride Terrie starts chattering at me about something on her mind I sometimes mentally run and hide because I know there will be about a zillion words coming my way, and I won’t know which ones to listen to. I also know that when my beautiful Bride Terrie asks me a question
Talk is cheap, so they say, and it is true; words come easily and abundantly, the problem is no matter how many words we use we may not be communicating. This lack of communication is not simply because others are not listening, it is because they cannot hear us. In my book Bear and Butterfly
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Do we define ourselves by what we think others are or are not? Do we define ourselves by how many others have harmed us? Do we define ourselves by the burdens we carry, our responsibilities? All these are very transient definitions, so when we finally learn that no one has truly harmed us more than
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