Those little boxes, you know the ones I mean, the boxes which define who we are, what we believe, who we should like, or dislike. The little boxes which define how much we should earn, where we should live (in a little box of course!). Those little boxes are so comforting. they keep us warm […]
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I am going to tell you how to have a completely fulfilled relationship, and you do not have to purchase anything, you do not have to respond by midnight, and this is not limited to the first 100 callers. Are you ready? Take notes now; the key to having a successful, fulfilled relationship is knowing
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When we hear or see the word Chaos we have been taught to think of things out of control, of things not working, of danger! In fact my Websters dictionary does indeed include a rather pejorative suggestion that chaos is a confused mass or mixture. This, however follows three other definitions, which all reflect a wholly
We can sing and dance around a topic, trying to avoid expressing a judgement, still, whatever we say after the word “but” is our real message. Have you ever noticed how peoples voices even change right before they get to what they want to say, bust before the “but” appears? The words drag out a
I have many friends who are walking the path of self IN-powerment, which is what we call this work at Choiceful Living Seminars. Folks who frequently ask themselves “How can it get any better than this?” What amazes me is that so often, once this path is started, the first thing some of these delightful
I heard this on an ad today and simply fell in love with the idea. Write your own fortune! Why wait for that dinner at the Chinese restaurant, do it yourself right now, have some fun! Who is your biggest supporter, and at the same time your loudest critic? Yourself of course, so enlist your
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All change in your life begins with YOU. Change does not begin with your spouse acting differently, change does not come from your boss being a nicer person. Change does not begin with your children being more respectful or prices coming down. Change begins with YOU, from the micro to the macro. If you want
I am going to go out on a limb here and make a prediction: no matter what the issue is you will not find a solution to that issue if you come from the place of the problem. The only place for advancement, for resolution, for forward progress will be to come from the possible.
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One of the reasons I write frequently about the dangers of gossip is that gossip is one side of the story. It is one side of a story told with overlaid emotions specifically intended to get the listener to buy into the story being told. To buy into One Side of the Story, and usually
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You have within your power right now to live extravagantly, whatever that means to you! Yes, right now that power is within you. I would like to suggest how you will tap into that extravagance: Read these statements to yourself: I have the courage to self-examine my thoughts and actions without finding wrong in me. I
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