Brian Graham

It’s easy for you!

It is easy for you if you think it will be easy for you.  It is difficult for you if you think it will be difficult for you.  These are two very simple statements that will govern everything you do.  The reason they sound so simplistic is that truth does not have to come in […]

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It’s easy for you!

“Sure, it’s easy for you (to say) it’s easy for you (to do) it’s easy for you (to think), you just don’t understand.”  When we say those words “It’s easy for you” what we are doing is telling ourselves we are not capable of doing something, we are telling ourselves someone else is better than

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Magical Thinking

Simply put; magical thinking is believing that if I behave in alignment someone else’s idea of how I should behave my life will be wonderful.  All too often we fall into this trap, heavens knows I have done so many times.  The problem is magical thinking rarely produces anything other than resentment. The other side

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That’s just the way it is

If you want to stop dead in your tracks in your happiness, say the words “That’s just the way it is.”  Saying these words (and as we know, words have power) means you are not willing to even consider that things could be different. My belief is that real change will not take place in

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Choiceful Living on TV

Some of you know I am married to one of the most amazing people on the planet, Terrie Symons, who is also known as Lady Ashtar.  My bride and I recently taped a television show with the delightful Paula Vail which will  debut today in the US on many viewing platforms and I hope you

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Commitment

You say you want to do or be something; something very special to your heart, but then you behave or do things contrary to that dream.  How can you expect the Universe to assist you in manifesting that dream if you project something different? “Dress for the job you want, not the job you have”

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Talents

You have talents, please never doubt for even one moment you have unique talents the world needs.  If this were not the case, you would not be here.  Some people have the talent of creating inspiring works of art, others have the talent of verbal communication, some have the talent of helping others find their

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Controversy

Are we going to continue to observe Columbus Day with all the controversy surrounding the new views about Christopher?  Will the Electoral College go away? Is it right for sports figures to express themselves?  These  and other controversies swirl around us these days: Gun control, the President, plaid or stripes, seems like everyday we have

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Peace on Earth

Praying for peace on earth is a wonderful thing, but sitting in your room praying is not enough.  You see, there is already peace on earth, it is the actions of people that are not supporting peace on earth.  This is where we run into a duality of life; God, The Universe, All There Is,

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Slippery Slope

When we set out to deprive someone else of the rights we enjoy, we end up denying those very same rights to ourselves. I was recently going through some old notes for talks I have given and came across a list that showed how the concept of “Do Unto Others What You Would Have Done

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