Fitting-in is the primary motivator of so many people; to the point that they forget who they are and what they believe. I know that as a parent, just as my own parents did about me, I worry that my own children will forsake what is right to fit-in. The power of not fitting-in Why […]
Sooner or later, in all of our lives, comes the question; do I forgive this person or do I delete them from my life. Our emotional response is often; delete, delete, delete. Our spiritual response is; forgive. Let’s look at the delete option. When we choose to cut-ties with someone over what they have done
Better to forgive than delete Read More »
The past is a wonderful thing to study, but releasing the past helps us live a more powerful life. We learn from the past, we do not have to keep dragging the past around on our backs like useless baggage. How the past becomes baggage Each experience we have becomes a memory. Some memories are
Releasing the past Read More »
Halloween is upon us once again. This is one of the most popular events of the year and this year we get to do it on a Saturday night, how cool is that! One of the reasons so many people enjoy Halloween is that we get to wear masks and costumes which reflect our secret
Which is the mask? Read More »
You have a story about your life. I have a story about my life. Everyone has a story about their life; who they are, why they do what they do, and they (we) tell that story all the time. We tell it to anyone who will listen, sometimes they are listening unwillingly, but most of all
What’s YOUR story? Read More »
Yes, a great song from the Who, and a great question to ask of our selves in the morning “Who are YOU?” You see, when we forget who we are, we become who we were. This invalidates all the learning, growing and experiences you have had throughout your life. How far back will this invalidation
Earlier I wrote about the idea of Forgive and Forget. As I look back on that blog which is available at Choicefullingseminars.com, I realize there is another step which we must consider in the forgiveness process. You see, if we do choose to forgive someone for doing something we did not like, or approve of,
Is Forgiveness enough? Read More »
Ya, right, forgive and forget, fat chance. Hold on now: forgiveness and forgetting are not the same thing at all. Forgetting something which impacted you is both impossible, and undesirable. Everything in our lives has brought us to the point we are now, yes, even those things we think were undesirable are part of who we are
Forgive and Forget Read More »
