Brian Graham

I want it all!!!

I am sorry to say, you cannot have it all. WHAT?  I can’t have it all? Strange words from a blog about possibility aren’t they?  The fact is you can not have it all because “All” has no bounds!  Remember when your idea of having it all meant having your own car, place to live […]

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People watching

I simply love watching people as they go about their everyday lives.  When I am on vacation, watching the locals and the other tourists is fascinating, even around my new home seeing how people interact is delightful. My lovely lady friend in Japan was sharing live video of people walking along the street outside her

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Escaping the Past

I recently had someone tell me I was good at erasing the past from my life.  This kind of took me by surprise because in my garage right now are four large bins of photos, memorabilia and collectables from my past.  “Erasing the past?” No, I don’t think so, but because this charge stayed with

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I told you so!

Want to really run a relationship into the ground?  Say “I told you so.”  It really doesn’t matter if you were completely right, saying “I told you so” is a relationship being killed slowly. No one likes being reminded they made an error, so the response, be it spoken or unspoken, is uniformly negative. The question you get to ask

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Living in Separation

Living in separation is not just a spiritual statement, although it does come back to spirituality.  Living in separation also refers to the idea that the person in the next cubicle, or the office with the corner windows, or the politician in Washington, or any other person on this earth is different than you or

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Everything is Energy

“Everything is energy, and that is all there is to it.  Match the frequency of the reality you want and you can not help but get that reality.  It can be no other way.  This is not philosophy, this is physics.” This is not something I made up, it is a quote from Albert Einstein.

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“Comfortability”

I checked, and the word Comfortability is not yet in Websters Dictionary, but it should be!  Comfortability is the ability to take comfort in your life; to take comfort in love; take comfort in who you are.   Have you felt comfortability in your life lately or have you been too busy being what and

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Say Thank You

If you have been a frequent reader of these posts you might have asked yourself “all these words are great, but does Brian actually put them to use himself?”  Fair question.  This morning as I prepared to shave and brush my teeth I had before me a very important meeting;  a meeting which would affect my life

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Increase your inner world

There is pure magic in increasing your inner world, and by that I mean the part of you which is more capable of giving and receiving love, the part of you which knows you are worthy of all the good the Universe has to offer.  The magic is that the more you increase your inner world,

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I was wrong

One of the really wonderful things about finding more candles on my birthday cake is that every day I learn something, that is I learn something if I listen.  The flip side of this continual learning is sometimes I discover that along the way I have told someone something I believed to be true, then

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