acting

Defending Myself

It seems to me that almost every conflict stems from feeling the need to defend ourselves.  I say “feeling the need” to defend ourselves; very often there is no need to defend ourselves, it sometimes just feels that way.  This stems from an insistence that we must be right and someone else must be wrong. […]

Defending Myself Read More »

I’m In Control Here!

Yes, you are in control of your life.  You call the shots, you directly control all aspects of your life.  Good for you! Suddenly we realize that rather than being in control of our lives we are really doing nothing more than moving with the tides around us.  This can come about from several directions:

I’m In Control Here! Read More »