advancement

Demonizing others

The most powerful thing about demonizing others is that we create a scapegoat for our own fears.  The most disempowering thing about having a scapegoat is we no longer have to face our own shortcomings. Learning to improve ourselves With a scapegoat, or someone to blame for what makes us uncomfortable, we by-pass an essential […]

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Magical Thinking

Simply put; magical thinking is believing that if I behave in alignment someone else’s idea of how I should behave my life will be wonderful.  All too often we fall into this trap, heavens knows I have done so many times.  The problem is magical thinking rarely produces anything other than resentment. The other side

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Constant and change

I recently heard some very interesting words; “The actuality of our being changes, our reality of being remains the same.” This is an concept to put into your mind and let it percolate for a while, but in the meantime let’s look at it.  As we go about our daily lives what we are doing,

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Closing the Chapter

OK, we have had over a week in 2016 to re-start those things which seemed to have stalled in 2015 but for some of us that re-start has not happened.  Why?  Because we have not let go of 2015 and all the things which happened there.  If we are to make a fresh start; if

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Come from possible

I am going to go out on a limb here and make a prediction: no matter what the issue is you will not find a solution to that issue if you come from the place of the problem. The  only place for advancement, for resolution, for forward progress will be to come from the possible.

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It’s Impossible

What is impossible?  In my world nothing is impossible, it just has perhaps not yet come about.  It was once common knowledge that it was impossible for a man to fly.  Not that long ago the idea I could sit here in my office and type a message which could be read all over the world

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